stop the invitations!

everytime some new online community fad comes on, i get a whole bunch of emails inviting me to join.

now, i don't particularly mind if the one doing the inviting is a friend (not that i would join still).

but when the person inviting is someone whom i haven't spoken to in years, i think there is a serious problem.

i think the fact that we haven't spoken in years is a clear sign that we are not friends. so why would i want to "add you as a friend"?

or did you want to make it obvious that you just invited your whole address book?